There are a bunch of harlots practicing to one day get their Only Fans page by disgustingly sexualizing Goth. On Tik-Tok and other similar sites. I was compelled to write this because when you search for Goth you’ll find a bunch of 20-something women dressed up like whores with the tag goth girl or something equally as uncreative.
The modest goth style is a cool blend that combines dark, edgy vibes with thoughtful coverage. It’s all about embracing that mysterious, alternative style and keeping things modest, comfortable, and true to you at the same time. A mix of black lace, velvet textures, and dramatic silhouettes, but with longer skirts, higher necklines, and layers.
Wearing this style isn’t about hiding away; it’s about feeling empowered in your clothes, combining the goth aesthetic with modesty.
Start with the basics: your wardrobe foundation. Black is king in goth fashion, so stock up on black tops, skirts, and dresses. Wear long-sleeved blouses with Victorian-style collars, or turtlenecks that hug your neckline snugly to be modest. Wear them with maxi skirts that flow to the ankles, or wide-leg pants in dark fabrics like cotton or wool. Don’t wear anything too tight or revealing, instead opt for A-line shapes that look romantic and flowing.
It’s all about the accessories here, like chokers, but choose ones that sit high and aren’t too flashy. Keep the dark theme going with cross pendants or subtle silver jewelry.
Wear a cardigan over a lace camisole, or a bolero jacket with puffy sleeves over a plain black dress, and layer. It not only adds modesty by covering shoulders and arms, but also adds depth with textures, contrasts and mystery. For instance, try matte black with shiny satin, or rough denim with soft chiffon. If you want a modest twist, pick ankle boots with low heels that pair well with long hems. Combat boots are a goth staple, but ankle boots with low heels are an excellent choice. For walking around town, If you are on your feet a lot in my opinion you can’t go wrong with a pair of 14 eyelet Dr. Martins. Comfortable and practical.
The colors matter a lot, even though most people think Goths only dress in black have not been around Goths. Mix in dark purples, burgundies, and forest greens to make it unique. These shades work great for modest outfits, like a plum-colored midi dress with long sleeves, or a green velvet scarf draped over your shoulders. Don’t be afraid to mix in patterns too, like subtle florals in black and gray, or damask prints that evoke old-world elegance. Don’t go for bold prints that clash; stick to ones that enhance the mysterious vibe.
Long waves or straight locks in black or dark hues fit the goth look, but if you’d like modesty, try updos like buns with lace ribbon or headbands. Go for smoky eyes with black liner, pale skin, and dark lips, but keep it balanced so it doesn’t overwhelm you. Matte finish makes it feel more casual and wearable.
A black turtleneck tucked into a maxi skirt, topped off with a cropped jacket and boots for a casual day out. Add a wide-brim hat to make it look goth. If you’re going to work or school, you can wear black slacks, a charcoal blouse, and loafers. For evening parties, you’ll need a floor-length gown with lace overlays, a modest neckline, and gloves.
Check thrift stores for unique pieces like old lace dresses you can cut for length. Or DIY by sewing hems longer on thrifted finds. For budget-friendly stuff, tons of handmade accessories are out there or make your own, from modest corset tops to layered skirts.
Make sure you take care of fabrics by washing dark clothes inside out and air-drying velvet. Mix and match to avoid repetition. One black dress can be transformed with different jewelry or layers.
A modest goth isn’t just clothes; it’s a way to express your dark side while honoring modesty. Make outfits that feel authentic and confident by experimenting with pieces that speak to you, whether you’re new to this or a longtime fan.
What’s harder? Finding modest versions of goth staples like fishnets, but swapping them out for opaque tights. Or dealing with heat in layers, so choose breathable fabrics like cotton blends. Online forums and social media groups share tips without judgment, so you don’t feel judged.
Goth is inclusive, creative, and empowering, letting dark aesthetics shine through modest choices. So grab your black lipstick, layer up, and step out in style.
